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Critical Dementia Skills

Critical Dementia Skill #9 Discussing Healthcare Wishes

This is the ninth installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. I know very few people who are comfortable discussing this particular blog topic of healthcare decisions. After all, it does involve thinking about the end of our lives, and when we cannot speak for ourselves in that moment. Yet, it is a challenge to find many more important talks to have in one’s life.

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Critical Dementia Skill #8 Shifting Roles We’ve Always Known

This is the eighth installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. Dementia is a condition that isolates many care partners in ways that go unnoticed by those not in that position. An example of this the loss of making decisions together with the person living with dementia, causing a shift in roles. Think about all of the decisions that a married couple makes,

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Critical Dementia Skill #7 Rallying the Family

This is the seventh installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. Perhaps the only thing that is as complex as dementia is the dynamic nature of families. Every family is unique and when you consider the number of family members, other family responsibilities, career situations, the strength of the relationships, and sometimes geographic locations.

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Critical Dementia Skill #6 Integrating Your Catholic Faith

This is the sixth installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. This CDS article, as with all first articles (those ending in”.0″), will introduce the idea of ensuring that a care partner and their loved one stay can practice their Catholic faith and stay connected to their parish activities. Dementia is a broad term used to describe a group of chronic symptoms that may include memory impairment disrupting everyday life,

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Critical Dementia Skill #5 Creating Your Emotional Support Network

This is the fifth installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. We introduced the critical dementia skill of Building your Dementia Team in CDS 2.0 and now turn to another team that’s best understood as a network. All of us belong to networks of people through family, friends, work colleagues, fellow parishioners, and other activities.

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Critical Dementia Skill #4 Forming a Back-Up Plan

This is the fourth installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. As a Boy Scout and eventual Eagle Scout, I learned the importance of our motto, “Be Prepared.” As a scout, it felt more like making sure that you had all of the right equipment when hiking or camping. As I matured, it became clear that the equipment is only part of that motto. 

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Critical Dementia Skill #3 Building your Dementia Team

This is the third installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. Dementia is a large and complex challenge, so you need a large and comprehensive team to support you and your family. This article is an introduction to the core team members we recommend that you recruit for your large team. Later articles will offer in-depth information on each role.

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Critical Dementia Skill #2 Understanding Ambiguous Loss

This is the second installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. If you, like so many dementia care partners, have thought that you are grieving the loss of a spouse, parent, or friend even though they are still alive, there is a good chance that you are experiencing ‘ambiguous loss.” While this is feeling is not a litmus test as to if you have it,

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Critical Dementia Skill #1 Finding Meaning in Dementia

This is the first installment in the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) series. For more information on the series, start HERE. You can also click on the CDS tags in the blog for more. Could we have started the Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) Series with a larger topic? People have pondered the meaning of life for thousands and thousands of years. They’ve also thought about the meaning of suffering for that long. Certainly, people have wondered about the meaning of dementia since it has become a phenomenon in society.

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Critical Dementia Skills (CDS) Series

Today starts a series of education that we will be rolling out each week. There are two types of education that will cover close to 40 topics over time. The first type of education includes foundational or core concepts, such as finding meaning or ambiguous loss in care partnering, that will benefit (almost) all care partners on their journey. The second type of education in the series will be practical or “hands-on.”  Examples of this type of education are bathing tips and advocating for a loved one residing in a senior care facility.

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